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vorpal
vorpal
Sebastian (塞巴斯蒂安) / 饒漢文
Tue, May. 4th, 2010 03:47 pm
Circumcision

Should parents be allowed to circumcise their sons?
If you had a son, would you have him circumcised? If so, why?
Discuss.

Moi:
I'm strongly opposed to infant circumcision to the point where I think it should be made illegal unless medically necessary. I expect that you wouldn't be allowed to put a big honking tattoo on your child's face (although I might be wrong), so why should you be allowed to surgically, permanently, and unnecessarily remove part of a baby?

Obviously, if I had a son, he'd be intact. I also don't buy the religious crap: mutilating a child in the name of religion is something to which I'm opposed. I think, instead, when a child reaches the age of 18, he should then make his own decision regarding circumcision. If, at that point, he's committed to his religion, by all means, go for it, and at that point, it would certainly have a lot more religious significance attached to it: if you're willing to undergo that much pain and discomfort for the name of your religion, clearly you are admirably serious about it.

Just say NO to chopping babies kthxbai.

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brokn2pieces
brokn2pieces
Stop singing, start swinging
Tue, May. 4th, 2010 07:51 pm (UTC)

i wouldn't have mine cut


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vorpal
vorpal
Sebastian (塞巴斯蒂安) / 饒漢文
Tue, May. 4th, 2010 08:53 pm (UTC)

LOL! Nice icon!


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jayessence
jayessence
JayEssence
Tue, May. 4th, 2010 07:52 pm (UTC)

Be allowed? - no
If I had a son... no!!

I've done enough reading that this whole thing with circumcision is barbaric. I am jealous of guys that are still fully intact.


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invisibelle
invisibelle
invisibelle
Tue, May. 4th, 2010 08:28 pm (UTC)

I hate getting into arguments with people about this... at least in the US people are so irrational about it. Suffice it to say, if I have a son, he will not be circumcised unless he chooses to do so as an adult.

I agree with the religious thing too, but again that's a big bunch of irrationality waiting to happen. What bothers me most is people that just do it without even having the religion excuse.


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vorpal
vorpal
Sebastian (塞巴斯蒂安) / 饒漢文
Tue, May. 4th, 2010 09:00 pm (UTC)

You'll get no argument from me! I agree with you 100%, m'dear!


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kishenehn
kishenehn
mark
Tue, May. 4th, 2010 08:30 pm (UTC)

Religious excuses or no, infant circumcision is child abuse. Period.

Now if you'll excuse me, I have an urge to go play with my foreskin. ;-)


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vorpal
vorpal
Sebastian (塞巴斯蒂安) / 饒漢文
Tue, May. 4th, 2010 08:57 pm (UTC)

Foreskin ownership for the win! I used to actually be able to have an orgasm through only playing with my foreskin!


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nangijala
nangijala
UE
Tue, May. 4th, 2010 09:18 pm (UTC)

- No
- No fucking way


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vorpal
vorpal
Sebastian (塞巴斯蒂安) / 饒漢文
Tue, May. 4th, 2010 09:32 pm (UTC)

*high five*


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gangrel_pri
gangrel_pri
James
Tue, May. 4th, 2010 09:49 pm (UTC)

I asked a similar question a while back and it started quite a debate. Based on anecdotal evidence, looks like the US doesn't mind near as much as folks not from the US.


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invisibelle
invisibelle
invisibelle
Wed, May. 5th, 2010 05:24 am (UTC)

I was 18 before I was finally relieved of my ignorance that it wasn't done all over the world. It's laughable to me now to imagine, but at the time, it blew my mind.

I wouldn't be surprised if a large percentage of Americans never discover that particular tidbit of information.


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inaglassbox
inaglassbox
Undercover Anti-Christ
Tue, May. 4th, 2010 11:37 pm (UTC)

Definitely not. It makes me angry to be circumcised since I'm not Jewish and I don't even think my parents chose for it to be done.


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ataventure
ataventure
Allison
Wed, May. 5th, 2010 12:03 am (UTC)

As a woman, I really have no idea. I've read that as an adult male, having a circumcision is bordering on self-abuse and horribly horribly painful, while, as a youngster, you're unlikely to remember such things (like how I don't remember that when I was 3, I ran into a brick wall with my face but I still have the scar to prove that it happened).

If I have a son, I will let whomever is providing the sperm (if I marry a man: the man, if I ask my BFF Steve to provide the sperm, then him) decide. I don't feel like, as a girl, I really have the frame of reference to decide the fate of my kid's penis.

Maybe this is a cop-out answer. I don't know.


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woekitten
woekitten
Dance Floor Exhaustion
Wed, May. 5th, 2010 12:18 am (UTC)

I believe there's no easy answer, especially if you come from a Jewish family. My father's family is Jewish, so my brothers and male cousins are all circumcised. Their sex lives are fine (though they don't go into great detail), and they all live normal lives. My husband (not Jewish) is circumcised. He performs fine, he's well-adjusted, and he doesn't remember the procedure (I was curious. I asked. XD)

I have heard tell that Jewish/Muslim circumcisions are generally less stressful on an infant because the mohel (and Islamic equivalent?) performs the procedure far more often than a regular doctor, and the infant is held by an honoured relative instead of being restrained.

The reason I say there's no easy answer is because on paper, it's easy to say "fuck religion." But in Judaism, male circumcision is just one of those things that gets done, regardless of how religious you are/aren't. I know it sounds abhorrent to anyone who didn't grow up in a household where the practise happens regularly, but my parents have been very supportive of my choices in life. I wouldn't be disowned for not circumcising my male child or anything overly dramatic, but it would be a huge disappointment to my dad, who's never asked me for very much.

tl;dr: I'm on the fence, but the answer isn't always cut and dried, so to speak. I don't have any kids, anyway. XD


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jayessence
jayessence
JayEssence
Wed, May. 5th, 2010 12:56 am (UTC)
Resources

I have to post some helpful resources:

http://www.circumcision.org/
http://www.jewishcircumcision.org/
http://www.nocirc.org/
http://www.intactamerica.org/
http://www.infocirc.org/
http://www.circumstitions.com/


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vorpal
vorpal
Sebastian (塞巴斯蒂安) / 饒漢文
Wed, May. 5th, 2010 01:55 am (UTC)
Re: Resources

Good stuff! I'm only familiar with about half these sites, so you've given me some great reading to do :D.


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bonoboboy
bonoboboy
Onion Monkey
Wed, May. 5th, 2010 12:58 am (UTC)

Now that I think about it, pretty much everyone I've been with who has had trouble cumming or keeping hard (on a regular basis) has been circumcised ...


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jayessence
jayessence
JayEssence
Wed, May. 5th, 2010 01:06 am (UTC)

Were you lucky enough to have escaped the knifes?


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gunblade_girl
gunblade_girl
Chananigans
Wed, May. 5th, 2010 01:37 am (UTC)

As a female I am incredibly strongly opposed to male genital mutilation, kthnx.

I love that your friends tend to feel the same way!


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gunblade_girl
gunblade_girl
Chananigans
Wed, May. 5th, 2010 01:41 am (UTC)

Though I guess I should add that I see a boatload of penis at work, and I've met a few uncut guys in their 70s-90s who have problems with their foreskins. One guy had to be circumcised at the age of 86 because it got so bad. That being said, I still wouldn't cut my children's genitals. I feel incredibly strongly about this.


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phillipalden
Phillip T. Alden
Wed, May. 5th, 2010 01:40 am (UTC)

I'm with you 100%.

When my sister was pregnant she asked me what I thought, and I told her more or less what you wrote. I was very happy when she followed my advice and left my baby nephew "unmutilated."


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sharpblonde
sharpblonde
sharpblonde
Wed, May. 5th, 2010 01:57 am (UTC)

Generally I agree with you. I think, ideally, even in religious situations boys shouldn't be circumcised, men should choose whether they want to be. However, I'm not honestly sure what I'd do if I ended up with someone who wanted to have it done to our kid for religious reasons. Then again, that's probably a moot point as in general the people I make the best connections with are atheist, agnostic, or pagan.... Definitely not a rule, but it's how things have chanced to happen.


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pagerbear
pagerbear
Wed, May. 5th, 2010 03:43 am (UTC)

I don't disagree with you at all about infant circumcision, but right or wrong, once it's done it's done. I have to wonder about men who become obsessed with mourning their lost foreskins. Even foreskin restoration seems a little weird to me, just another kind of self-mutilation like excessive tattoos or piercings or more extreme "modifications." YMMV, of course.

For the record, being born in 1962 to extremely white-bread Protestant American parents, I did not escape the knife. I'm still pretty fond of the penis I have.

Edited at 2010-05-05 03:43 am (UTC)


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hugh7
hugh7
Thu, May. 6th, 2010 03:02 am (UTC)

Do you think women who wear a prosthetic breast or have an implant after a mastectomy are "obsessed with mourning their lost breasts"? Foreskin restoration is much milder than an implant - it's just increasing the area of your own skin (but it can't replace the ~20,000 nerves).


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guardian1
EDTD
Wed, May. 5th, 2010 03:43 am (UTC)

We have a son (now growb( abd yes we gad himun circumcized shortly after birth not for religious
reasons (we'are not Jewish) but because our birth-doctor recommended it for long-term health reasons.
Maybe we should ask him what the effects have been over the years. I was circumcized as an adult because
I was getting infections down there and after the op I didn't have them anymore. So there you are.


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